Tuesday, October 31, 2006

The hunt continues

When I rang work to update my boss-to-be on the childcare situation so far, she surprised me with an offer to subsidise The Little Madam's childcare costs. What's more, she told me that if the in-home carer doesn't work out, she'll heavily subsidise the cost of hiring a live-out nanny.

Isn't that just about every working mother's dream?

This increases my options so much more, so I'm that much more likely to find someone I'm completely - or even mostly - happy with.

After I heard the news, the terrible upper-back and neck pain I'd been suffering from in the last few days subsided noticeably, and I've been able to stop taking Voltarin (an anti-inflammatory which just happens to aggravate my asthma).

Meanwhile, I'm going through in my mind what instructions I'll have to give regarding TLM's morning naps. Something along the lines of - put her down for a nap around three hours after she woke up this morning, but if she looks tired earlier then try for earlier. But if she looks wide awake, keep her up until she starts looking tired. But if she hasn't fallen asleep after half and hour, get her up and try to keep her up until she's had her morning tea and try again. And if she doesn't go to sleep after that, give her an early lunch and I'll try for an early afternoon nap when I get her home.But try to work in an outing each morning...

4 comments:

Michael C said...

Everyone needs a boss like your soon-to-be one! I could never hire a nanny. Only because I would have to compare all of them to Mary Poppins, whom I imagine is a hard act to live up to!

Happy Halloween

Violet said...

I doubt I'll find a nanny who can fly y'know. Happy Halloween to you, too - hope you get lots of candy.

mad muthas said...

are you sure you were awake during this conversation with your boss ... and not maybe tucked up in bed, dreaming? or had made a tasty omelette (sp?) with those odd little mushrooms you found growing in the field opposite?

Violet said...

mad muthas: I did bring it up again with her and she didn't respond with a blank stare and "are you crazy?!?!". So I'm going to try and hire a nanny and start work before she has time to change her mind...