Taking TLM to my mum's place this Sunday is going to be slightly awkward, because of something that happened
last Sunday.
For some reason, my niece's best friend has accompanied her to mum's place most Sunday's for the last few months. She's not Chinese and perhaps finds it a novelty to spend time at an elderly Chinese lady's house and eat her food.
The rest of us don't mind, though it's changed the dynamics between TLM and her cousin - and not just because TLM is more likely to get left out nowadays.
When the three of them go on the trampoline at the same time, it's damned likely that someone will get hurt.
I should have been on the alert a few weeks ago when they all got on there in the dark (post-dinner) and someone landed on her face. But TLM was - amazingly - not badly hurt.
Last Sunday, someone decided to do a handstand while they were on the trampoline. And TLM's face got in the way.
There was so much blood coming out of her nose and mouth. Once we'd got her cleaned up and calmed down enough for a good look, we found a split lip and a gash across her upper gum (right where she was growing two adult teeth).
I was quite angry and worried, but not comfortable with telling off someone is not my child - especially as I didn't see it happen so I couldn't be sure who was at fault. (The lesson here, I think, is that you don't stand behind someone unless they know you're there and you're both participating in some team-building exercise.)
About a week later, I am ready to stop being angry. But it would help a lot if just this once, a certain person didn't accompany my brother's family to Sunday night dinner.